Thanks again TheOneBuck! I'm not sure she's ready to start studying with me things that would refute her long-held beliefs, but she's already been aware that I've been researching some things for well over a year now, myself. I did get her to look at the forum for the first time a couple days ago, and she read the entire thread started by SwordOfJah!
by telling her the views that were depressing her were wrong to begin with
Who likes being told they are wrong.. Make yourself visable when you do research, so she might sit it. Actually do some research together and see what you think about the 144,000. Do not rely on others to tell if it is right or wrong decide for yourself. I think if you both go into it with an open mind you will be amazed at the outcome... not only hers but yours.